Hey, you! Yes, you! When was the last time you bought your baby a can of milk? Have you changed your child’s diapers lately? If you don’t remember, then it’s been too long. Is your ex-girlfriend pestering you for child support? Has her lawyer contacted you yet?

If you’re reading this, chances are you’re a dimwit. No offense, but men who think that raising children is easy must be out of his mind. Seriously, if you haven’t been responsible, then you should start being one now. Don’t miss out on having your child around you. Don’t miss out on their childhood, it passes by so quickly. Next thing you know, they’re already grown-ups and they don’t want anything to do with you.

For numskulls out there, the mother of your child is entitled to financial support – about 25-30% of your salary. Sorry to burst your bubble, but it’s in our Family Code. To make matters worse for you, your ex can file civil and criminal cases against you if you don’t pay up. Don’t believe me? You will, soon enough.

Do you want to go to jail? Of course, not (Smart man!). Now if you don’t want to end up posting P80,000 for bail, read on.

Give your ex a fair amount each month. Fair isn’t when she stops complaining, fair is 25-30% of your salary. Send her a copy of your pay slip so she’ll shut up. (Sorry ladies, but we never really stop complaining, so I’m just saying the truth)

If you don’t trust your ex with money – go SHOPPING! But before you do that, make sure that you’re buying the right kind of milk, diapers and food. Don’t think you know everything, because you don’t. Give your ex a call, and ask what kind or brand to buy.

Just because your hate your ex, doesn’t mean that your child should suffer. Just because your ex has a new boyfriend or is married now, doesn’t mean you’re off the hook. Continue giving child support until your kid turns 18.

If you don’t have enough, find a better paying job! If you think that you’re worth minimum wage, then you’re wasting your employer’s time.

Don’t tell me you don’t have a job because you had better find one real fast, or your child will grow up disrespecting you. To make matters worse, you’ll soon lose respect for yourself. A bum is a lazy ass son of a bitch and they should all go to hell – just my opinion.

I hope that this has been helpful even though I sound like I don’t really want to help dads. Yes, I am biased. But I want all single moms to get what they truly deserve, a good life.